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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I have been working together buying our first house. We have never done this before and it's stressful. We found a local realtor who looks to be in her 30's, heavy makeup, attractive enough, married to a cop and travels on the weekends. Maybe this was the first mistake but DH started the e-mail communication with her starting the process. What has followed is that DH and I discuss and then he writes her back communicating that we have talked about so and so and this is what we would like to do or questions we have about the houses we are looking at.

I have not been cced on any e-mails because I'm usually right there in the room either while he's writing them or he will forward them to me. Well I don't know if it's her or us or that they have been communicating via e-mail for a few weeks before our first showing. But when we went to our first showing and one subsequent meeting she was incredibly flirtatious in nature laughing at everything my DH was saying and asking about. In response, my DH who doesn't really smile or talk alot to anyone turned into a grinning, happy chatterbox. The offer on one house fell through and while determining if that was the house we wanted that evening, she sent another e-mail to DH saying that there would be another home in that area listed in a week that we could also consider because of a divorce situation. I don't know why but when she sent that with that personal information, I got a weird feeling about it. (Also, side note it's been at least 2 weeks and I've not seen it listed on any major realtor sites but could be)

Our 3rd showing happened and this time she wore heels, a pretty wrap dress and accompanied us to a new construction sales office. There was a creepy sales guy there and she did not act flirtatious with this man and did not laugh at what he was saying like she had with DH. I got annoyed after these 3 meetings with the realtor and told me DH that he should act in a polite, friendly but emotionally reserved way to woman he meets for business. I mean, especially if I am there. After that he started ccing me on all e-mails and surprisingly or not the realtor stopped writing in length with DH, stopped writing emotional things such as "sorry about the loss but we'll find the right one", and when I tried asking her a question for the first time through e-mail she gave me a very basic short answer.

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