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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am not attracted to DH, and I see myself in a lot of that list.  But how do you dump your best friend who hasn't done anything wrong?[/quote]

This. I found myself all over that list. DH is perfect -- except I'm not really attracted to him. He's good in bed, but there is no - fire. There never was for me. Our marriage would probably be classified as a good one (regular sex, outwardly respectful partners, parents on the same page about kids, both gainfully employed, brilliant children, blah blah blah), I've got nothing to complain about. I could simply be done with this marriage and be happy without it. I'd miss his handyman helping around the house, though. And the way he is a great father. But sexual attraction is at zero.  I ignored this for a long long time. But ... it doesn't go away. You don't get MORE attracted to your spouse as they get older. They get fatter, breath louder, fart smellier, and taste even worse than when you married them two decades ago.

So what do you do? I'm not into sexless anything (I haven't hit menopause yet, I'm still horny), DH doesn't want to open the marriage, affairs are fun but ultimately don't work out, and at the end of the day I'm still married.[/quote]

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