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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I don't want to offend them by 'rejecting' them[/quote] Op, I suggest it's kinder to let them know -for sure- when you are coming, so they can count on it and look forward to it. And then you stick to it. It's a commitment. Don't entertain speculation about maybe you'll come... or don't know ... or other wishy-washy talk. Decide. You decide. When do you want to go? How many visits? Get out a yearly calendar and make (some) firm decisions. It's called having an adult relationship with other adults. You should expect that your decisions are treated with respect. Emotional manipulation is not acceptable. It's not loving. You have the power. You have power over your schedule. You just have to stand-up for yourself as all adults should.[/quote]
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