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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, if I read your posting correctly...
You had told your husband previously that if he lied to you again, then you were done right?

But then it seems after you found out about his flirtatious texts w/another woman you gave him another chance & after counseling you stayed.

So in his mind, he likely knows you will not really leave him.
Because of this, he likely will continue doing everything he has been doing.

Given his past history/behavior, you have every right to feel ill at ease about this.
Anyone in your shoes would.[/quote]

Can see how it read that way.  Actually the flirty texts were first with lark city woman that sane night I left the house with his phone after confronting him and went to a hotel. I found out about Paris/London situation that sane night. Big blow ensued. I left for a week. He was broken and remorseful and we did counseling. It took me years to really get over it and to be honest not sure you ever do. I said at that time that if there’s ever another situation I will leave.

I thought more tonight’s situation and I’m pretty furious.  The exact situation known to be highly tempting for him , traveling, young women etc. and yes I think it’s odd they were in contact . If he’s rarely seeing her as a trainer then how would they be close enough to know each other’s travel and text to meet up?  Who initiated getting together? If her, she wants something.  When I was in my twenties I didn’t initiate this kind of thing with older married men for that very reason. There would be expectations for sure.  And if he did it, well that speaks for itself.  At this point he needs to screen shot the texts and send to me with her number attached don’t you think?  I hate being suspicious and not trusting him but this is feeling all wrong in my gut.

Even if innocent, it’s really crass and disrespectful to put me in this position knowing how hurt and angry I was before.  I would never do any of this innocent or not to him.  [/quote]

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