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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When does it come down to a head-to-head competition? If I were picking who to rescue from a burning building, it’d be the kids (and I’d expect him to do the same). But generally, family members get my time and attention in proportion to their maturity and their needs. [/quote] Same here. I'd say that the kids' needs always come first, but their wants do not. Because they are kids, and I am responsible for them in a way that I am not responsible for my husband. And I wouldn't want to be married to man who would make me choose between him and our children--it's all about balancing everyone's needs and wants, and sometimes the kids come first, and sometimes I do, and sometimes he does--it just depends on what's going on. [/quote]
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