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[quote=Anonymous]As a mom of all boys, these posts really make me sick. Would you so easily cut your own family out of the mix? What part have you played in this toxic relationship, and can you truly just say it is all because of your IL’s actions? I understand that there are *some* extreme cases that warrant such drastic measures, but I can’t believe that all of these type of posts are because of extreme cases. Every family has some kind of dysfunction, yes even your own parents aren’t perfect and have issues, but I can’t imagine cutting my MIL mostly out of my life (as a result, my kids and husband would see her much less). You put up with your parents and their issues, and you can extend some grace to your OL’d and their issues (I know that this is easier said than done). Signed a mom of 3 boys (6, 9, 11) with a difficult MIL who spent the first ~10 years of our marriage thinking that no one was good enough for her precious baby boy (my husband is her only child).[/quote]
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