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[quote=Anonymous]Do the IL already know about the concert, OP? If not, and you are certain they won't "find out" by driving by and seeing the sign on the marquee or by your DC letting it slip, then I wouldn't torture yourself over it. But if you think there is a chance they would find out, this will just be one more thing for them to be "hurt" and "offended" about when you could just suck it up and tell them about it. Just have your DH send an email: "Hi Mom and Dad, Larlo's band concert is Friday night at 7pm at the school. I won't be able to make it due to a work obligation, but we wanted to let you know about it in case you were able to attend. Seating shouldn't be an issue if you arrive about 15 minutes ahead of time." This way, you don't have to talk to them directly and it is not implied that you would need to save them seats or sit with them.[/quote]
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