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Reply to "marriage not in a good place, but not sure how to make things better"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think you need to reach out to him more. At night try initiating sex, even if it's a blowjob. I also think you need to consider if you can model appreciation for him, rather than looking for him to start it up. So if he criticizes you, try not to come back at him. Try to let it go. Spirals work both ways--the good kind of spiral and the negative kind of spiral. You want to get your spiral going the other direction. So thank him when he does something well. Brag him up to the kids. See if your spiral can reverse. One more thing: having two little kids is very hard for everyone. I'd try to find some easy wins to get more time as a couple together: movie night? trading playdates with another couple? bringing a grandparent into the picture more routinely? kids nights out camps? [/quote]
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