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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your story is a little fishy as you wouldn't have been charged without some sort of evidence of you being violent (i.e. broken door, bruises/scratches on your ex BF, etc.).[/quote]

It's right in the OP that she was arrested for fighting back...[/quote]

Well for all we know "abusive ex" = wouldn't let me sleep over at my male friend's houses alone and "fighting back" = he grabbed my wrist so I smashed a dinner plate over his head.

99% of DV calls the cops are arresting and charging the man, so I stand by my earlier assertion that something about OP's story is fishy.[/quote]
99% is not true. I'm not Op, but I got arrested with along side with ex-husband. I don't believe your 99%. It was "he-said/she-said". Cops put zero effort into finding out was not telling the truth. They said they have the right to take us both. So we both ended up in jail and released with "no papered" the next day.
I called the cops, I had reported him before and asked for help, I had even moved out, but went to his house to see my son and he knew I was coming- we were texting, but he forgot and had a "fling" there. Long story, but he had asked me for 10k and knew I probably wasn't going to give it to him now and he flung at me and dragged me down several flights of stairs... I called the cops as previously suggested by DV detective. I was bruised up all over my body, but since it was February I was wearing long pants and long sleeves. Once they arrest you, they don't undo the arrest. You are going to jail and they let the judge who sees you for 30 seconds, decide. The judge was just as confused and probably thought I deserved to be there if the cops arrested me. A lawyer would've "saved me:, but since we were "no papered", we weren't given lawyers. I should've walked out of there are had him arrested later. See, even timing matters.
Extremely unfair if you asked me. I did nothing wrong. Couldn't even fight back since I was being dragged on the floor by 300 pound guy. Happened in DC. Missed my flight to Puerto Rico and got my car towed too. Really didn't see him losing it since I had already moved out, but he did coke at the time too. Yes, coke showed up when they made him pee in the cup. Made no difference. In DC ,they happy if a father wants to stick around.
Anyhow, OP, don't lie, say it was DV and get it sponged. I haven't and quite frankly, I don't even want to waste my time on it. I did nothing wrong and now I'm saddled with it.[/quote]

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