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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm going to be completely honest, if I was your wife and you laid all of this out for me, if would be so alienating to hear that you don't really care that we don't spend much time together outside the bedroom. I imagine it would be very hurtful that your primary interest in me as a partner is as a warm body for you to stick your penis in, and beyond that I'm largely irrelevant except to the extent that I also fawn over all of your contributions to stroke your ego. I mean, you note the lack of conversation but don't include it in your list of things you want, and that speaks volumes.[/quote]
Brutal, but fair.[/quote]

Ditto to this.

Try this...
1. I want you to be home more because I don't want you to look back and think you missed out on time with the kids. (I actually said this to my H and he cut back on work.)
2. I want to spend more time with you, can we work on finding a babysitter so we can go out as a couple twice a month (every other weekend).
3. I miss time in bed together, on Sunday afternoons can we put a movie on for the kids and tell them we are taking a nap. 
4. I am going to hire a person to cook two nights a week because I feel overwhelmed with household chores. [/quote]

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