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[quote=Anonymous]My girlfriends of a year and I are making plans for he future. We are both in our 30’s and are fast tracking life. She revealed to me that she is unsure if she wants kids. As a former nanny, she witnessed the downsides of having kids - lack of sleep, life revolving around them, tantrums, etc., and doesn’t know if that is for her. She goes back and forth, but 75% of the time she wants one kid. I definitely want at least one child, possibly 2 or 3. This information is making me rethink my future with her, because I don’t want to live a childless life. I personally think because she suffers from fertility issues ( PCOS), she may feel pressured, and is easier to say she doesn’t want kids, than be let down by trying and it possibly not happening. We both work in healthcare and know pregnancy wth PCOS is quite high with little risk. She’s the first woman I have thought of building a life with, but her lack of unknown for children is a huge hurdle. I feel I may have to make the choice or her or having children. I am confused and unsure of what to do. Anyone been in this same predicament? [/quote]

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