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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you marry him?[/quote]

Because ADHD impacts multi-tasking, and frequently people get married before getting promoted to upper management, before having kids to pile on more responsibilities, before being homeowners, before having to care for elderly parents, all at the same time. And when life becomes a little complicated, this is when people with ADHD start not being able to cope. A young single person with no responsibilities expect to hold down one simple job will rarely exhibit any symptoms.

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Forgetting to feed a child is well beyond anything you describe[/quote]

I agree that in OP's case, there might be more going on!

But my husband with ADHD has missed feeding our kids. He has no internal clock and doesn't check what time it is, gets involved with a preferred task and completely ignores everything else. Which is why I had to do everything kid-related when they were little, for their own safety.

When you read about parents forgetting to bring their infant from the car to the daycare, and going to work, these are probably people with inattentive ADHD. 
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OP here. Wow, maybe he does have ADHD. It is as if you are describing my husband exactly. With all that is already on my plate, I do not have the time to coddle him through going to get evaluated and treated though. He doesn’t want to face reality. I feel like a hostage because I worry about sharing custody with this simpleton, but life with him is intolerable.[/quote]

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