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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just don’t know if any woman truly loves a man for himself. Everywhere I look around me I see women settling down with men based very obviously on external factors. “ oh his family is blue blood” “ he is a McKinsey consultant” “He is so logical and smart” “ I know he will never have trouble getting hired” “ he got me a bracelet from Tiffany’s” I never hear anything about the mans personal attributes. It’s so obvious that if their boyfriend in question did not come with all his trappings of wealth or a good job or family status...the woman would never date him. [b]I’ve also seen perfectly wonderful guys in the retail industry being turned down by these same women because the guy didn’t have all of the above. [/b] Is true love dead? Did it ever exist? Would Meghan Markle love harry if he wasn’t the prince Harry?[/quote] It's not because they didn't have those ridiculous requirements, it's because there is something seriously wrong with an adult who works in retail past their early, maybe mid 20s. I say this as someone who wasted years dating a guy like that, and sure, he was "nice", but he was also content with being lazy and letting me do all the actual adult work while he got to be a perpetual teenager. That gets old, and it's impossible to have kids with someone like that. Most women expect a guy to be a functioning, healthy adult. [/quote]
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