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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you use a vibrator during sex?

Do you get 8 hrs of sleep a night?

What is your general health?

Do you resent your H for anything?[/quote]

OP here. I get enough sleep, I have good health in general (though I take an anti depressant for anxiety and depression), I probably don’t get enough exercise but at least I walk every day for ~ 45 min on my lunch break), I do O every time.

I don’t know what the problem is? ???? I think some of it is just busyness from the kids. This one has a baseball game, that one has a test I need to quiz him for, the third one has a project due and needs materials and help etc. etc. every week.

Sex often just feels like one more demand on my time when all I really want to do is relax by myself with no one needing or asking anything of me. I don’t know what the answer to that is.

I do feel like I’d want to do it more if we could do it in the middle of the afternoon when I have more energy. But we both work so...

Does anyone else relate to this? We have older kids so it’s not fatigue related to not STTN (BTDT x3).[/quote]

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