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[quote=Anonymous]OP sounds 1) regretful he didn't get more wild and crazy when he was younger and 2) mildly jealous / threatened by DW's former flingee (or whatever the noun is for the person she hooked up with 12+ years ago.) These feelings are not going to end well.

Why not think about what you can do now, rather than looking backward? For instance, what if you told your wife you wanted to get more wild and crazy? Sex can be fun, exotic, exciting if both people are of the same mindset. Talk about this with her. Tell her you want to start mixing it up. Watch edgier porn together. Talk about some of your fantasies and what elements of those fantasies can come into your bedroom. Don't be a dick if she doesn't want to do something, be aware that people change and just because she was wilder when she was young does not mean she's obligated to be wild now. But talk about your feelings and what you want in bed. For another instance, if the flingee is a lame-o and you hate being around him, stop being around him. Tell DW that you feel uncomfortable that he was her former flingee and that you don't like being there with them.

Speaking just for me, looking backward is going to destroy your marriage. Look forward to what you can control and change.[/quote]

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