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[quote=Anonymous]I junk it’s good that you let her know right away that you will have a major issue with interacting with her family if you two marry. But I don’t think it hasn’t to be an ultimatum of you or her family. Maybe you can agree to build closer relationships with the healthy members of her family: the brother who opted out of the family, and the kind sister. It is important to not have toxic relationships. But your girlfriend has to come to this conclusion on her own. If she does it for the wrong reasons (fear of losing you) it is a recipe for resentment, and a whole host of other implications. Talk to her about how she envisions a future with you, her, and both of your family. Do you bring her around your family often, and is she comfortable there? She would also gain a new family with you.[/quote]
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