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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I hate to say it, but dump her.

You don't deserve a toxic family and she should not cut them off because of you.

I dated people with toxic families, it only gets worse of you have kids. My husband has a loving family like mine and it's the best thing in the world.[/quote]

I don’t agree. People can’t choose the family they are born into, but they can choose the family they want. She deserves love and happiness. No reason he beefs to dump her. [/quote]

He shouldn't be giving an ultimatum about her family. He should be supportive of her decisions. If he can't do that then he needs to move on.[/quote]

I agree with this.  Not his place to ask her to cut off her family.   My dh has a difficult family.  His mother is mentally ill.  I no longer see her, but I support my dh in however he decides to manage his relationship with her.  I find incredibly controlling that op is demanding she cut them off.  Op, you get to decide for yourself if you don't want to spend time with these people, but in no way is it appropriate for you to demand that of her.  You are not in charge of her, and your demand is incredibly disrespectful. If she were a friend of mine, I'd tell her that was a bad sign and she should reconsider the relationship.  [/quote]

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