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Reply to "change of circumstances has led to better relationship--how to sustain when we go back to reality?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I would start by trying to figure out, very specifically, why your relationship isn’t better when you’re not working. Is it because you don’t fight and/or resent each other over division of household chores becaus you have more time during the day to get them done? Do you spend more time relaxing and having fun together because there is more free time? Is it because usually you both come home tired and cranky after work and start taking that out on each other when you get home? Is it that you’re competing for free time without childcare responsibilities on evenings/weekends, and now that you get more of that during the week you don’t feel as much of a need for it when your DH is home and can let him have it instead? Figuring out the details of the dynamic can make it easier to find solutions.[/quote]
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