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[quote=Anonymous]You need to tell him in a clear, calm voice why you are struggling to get dinner on the table, ask for him to think about what he said and say that you would like an apology after he really thinks about why it bothers you, and then say that you would like him to develop a strategy for helping you with this aspect of life for the next month or two. Maybe he cooks batch dinners on the weekend. Maybe he does the grocery shopping and then makes sure you have a chance to make batch dinners on the weekend. Maybe he decides he is fine with your Freshdirect order but he prepares it the nights he is home. Just make sure that his solution involves some help and buy in from him. Those first few weeks with two are hard for everyone and he said something thoughtless but I would start with the idea that it came from exhaustion and stay calm and straightforward when you point out that it hurt your feelings and you could use his help and understanding. [/quote]
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