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[quote=Anonymous]Awh, man.  Everyone in my small town knows I'm single.  I look like fresh meat and I get hit on all the time. I worked on a project several year ago that involved a local business owner (I worked with lots of local business owners), who then 6 months ago started messaging me on Facebook.  He's not the first man in town to do this.  A month or so ago, he saw me having lunch by myself one day and struck up a conversation.  This led to FB messages asking me for advice on a project, so a couple of weeks later, we meet for drinks.  He doesn't bring the materials, and I realize he's interested in me.  I had a good time and I said I'm not ready to date, but sure, let's keep chatting and see where this goes.  No promises.  He was fine with that.

We've seen each other a couple of times since then.  He texted a few days ago wanting to get together this week, and I texted and said I was free tonight.  But now I'm just generally annoyed.  That wound up being a 20-text conversation about what I want to do and where I want to go.  I want to get drinks.  I've eaten, I don't want you coming back to my place.  I don't want to visit you at work.  Pick someplace we can both walk to.  This after a week of constant texting after I told him I needed space during divorce drama bomb (but that he could still sometimes text me).  I didn't mean for it to be tell me what you had for breakfast and tell me when you're going to bed.  And then the insistence on cooking for me or bringing me food when you don't know me well.  This on top of all of the reasons why I shouldn't have been dating him in the first place.

I mentioned on another thread that I'm separated, divorce drama, and out of shape, so when I have been dating, I've been dating men I shouldn't be dating. Oh, DCUM, I know what I need to do, and I'm going to do it.  This is just a vent that I'm annoyed by a situation I created for myself. [/quote]

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