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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No easy answers. I'd told myself I was going to work for a year and save money before leaving, but then my husband threw something at me and was abjectly unapologetic/blaming. I knew it was only going to get worse from there, and I left within the week. I cried everyday and was suicidal. I had to go. Maybe you can stay with your parents for a spell? Do you have familial support? Anything will help. [/quote] This happened to me. I was a SAHM for 2.5 years and had to leave when my daughter was 4. I got a job and everything got worse very quickly. My XH was also financially abusive. Yes, you need the job. But, wait until your other ducks are in a row. Open your own checking account and don't tell him. Wait, I posted a long list of how to get out of an abusive marriage on another thread. I will find it and link back to it.[/quote]
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