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[quote=Anonymous]I am 35 with three small kids.  He is a great dad to the kids and very involved in childcare duties.  He is completely indifferent towards me and often mean.  He makes me feel terrible about myself and it’s often worse if he has been drinking.   Today he went to run an errand and left his phone home by accident.  He never is without his phone.  I looked in his phone and as I suspect he is sexting multiple women.   I suspected this because he has a history of doing this since we have been married , but I sorta turned a blind eye to it.   Today after he yelled at me when I asked if he could check his pockets for my keys, I realized I can’t continue this relationship much more.  I am so unhappy.  I cry often and sometimes my children see my sadness and they are so young.  I really want to separate but I can’t financially.  I have been a SAHM for the past five years and DH is supporting us.  To the smart people of DCUM what should I do first.  I don’t think I want to reconcile because I just don’t love him anymore.  I want to be done.  I know my children love their dad so much, and I just tell myself to stay around for the kids...but what about me and my happiness?   If I need to stick around for a couple more years to get my finances together I will but I want to hear people’s advice.[/quote]

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