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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is important to DH to have us all get along and I want to for his sake and the sake of my kids. THey are good with the kids and the kids enjoy getting out to the 'country' to visit. I used to like it (not my number one favorite time ever, but it was peaceful and nice) but now that I know she hated that i read a book when visiting and hated that I went to bed before they did one time and hated about 10000 other things over the years it just feel exhausting. 
The holidays were bearable because she was busy with other relatives and I get along with this siblings. But this visit will be just us for 3 days. 
I wish I could just stay home but really don't want this to cause a fight between DH and I. She is totally not worth that. [/quote]
Stay at a hotel rather than their house.  You'll be able to get away, DH and kids will be able to visit his parents, and you won't be 'bothering' his mother if you want to read, or sleep, or do any of the other perfectly reasonable things that people do on vacation.[/quote]

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