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[quote=Anonymous]You need to build stronger boundaries for yourself. That will help you brush off their comments and put them in perspective. Perspective: Look at them as people who love and miss their kids/grandkids, and long to see them more often. (Imagine yourself once your kids are grown and far away.) They may not be able to express it without it feeling negative to you, but maybe that's all it is. Boundary: You don't have to take it personally or negatively. You see them as often as you can, and their missing you and wanting to see you more are their feelings to deal with. This can help you feel compassionate while shielding you from being made to feel bad or suffocated.[/quote]
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