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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm very very sorry OP. That sounds like an extremely traumatic thing to go through, and it's normal that you're struggling.

I don't want to be insensitive, but I do want to ask a couple questions without making any assumptions. You said you'd gone to visit him - how many times? And have you gotten proof/confirmation of his death besides his family telling you? Especially since you were excluded from the service. What country is he from?

I'm sorry to ask those things, but a few things in your story just threw up a couple yellow flags as someone who deals with international fraud. [/quote]

I lived with him for 6 months each visit several times. I don't think you're being insensitive. WHen his family first told me, I was in disbelief. It just seemed impossible. I called the hospital and they confirmed it. I also was told there was a full autopsy on his body by the medical examiner's office. I had a really hard time with this information.. it's not easy to come to the realization that the man you loved had an autopsy performed on him. He just thought he was going to go for a drive and get a snack at the shop up the road (I assume this, knowing him so well) and instead he died and then they did an autopsy on him. It really haunts me. He was from South Africa. I was going to relocate there this year, marry him, and start a family.

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