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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In the fall I was in a wedding.  My husband came to the wedding with me and spent time with the groomsmen while I got ready with the bride.  When I got home the groomsman I walked with messaged me and we started chatting.   Our chats got sexual and personal.  We chatted for one week before I ended it.  I was in a really bad place and felt like my husband wasn't supporting me, but things are better since I went back to work in the winter and talked to my doctor about depression.  The guy still messages me sometimes even though I have asked him to stop.  He even writes comments on my husbands FB posts and I get nervous he'll let it slip or straight out tell him.  I didn't tell DH but I feel guilty.  Is this anxiety something I have to live with?  Did I cheat?  Can I tell my husband without him leaving me?  We have a two year old.  TIA[/quote]

DH here:  leaving aside the ethics of the thing (I’d want to know), if you can’t ensure your DH never finds out it may be better for you to get out in front of it.   Groomsman may well try to leverage your need for secrecy to get you to do things you might not want to, especially if groomsman has nothing to lose (not married, etc.)[/quote]

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