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[quote=Anonymous]These are valid questions, ignore the snark of the earlier posters. To answer your question directly, you are correct, you are not ready to marry your BF. Before I married DH I had similar concerns about a previous boyfriend. The reality is that my hesitation to join finances with him was a clear indication that Indid not see him as my husband/marriage material though I did not view it that way in the moment. Flash forward to DH, I never had those hesitations with him. Enjoy your time with BF now, but he is not your husband. I also second the advice of PPs to see a lawyer. Getting your finances together regarding the $1 million from NYC is not solely dependent on whether you marry this BF or not. Handle it now so it is a non-issue in the future with whomever you decide to marry. Good luck. [/quote]
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