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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is hard to know if he is abusive or if it is frustration and impatience and you two have a really unhealthy dynamic. [b]Withholding / refusing sex[/b] for a year in a marriage is a sign that you are just as frustrated but express it a little differently. Both of you are trying to get power and control where you can. Just a guess but he [b]might also feel you are never or rarely nice to him either[/b].

It will be hard but unless you are going to go to counseling and work through it and develop better communication and a healthier way of relating - divorce is really your only option as you can't both live like this in a resentful, sexless marriage.

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OP here - I don't think of it as withholding, I just really don't want to do it. I'm afraid of him, always walking on eggshells. I think he does lately feel like I'm not nice to him either. I used to be sweet and make effort to be kind to him no matter what, but after a while his behavior wore me down and now I find I'm becoming more and more like him. [/quote]

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