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Reply to "Tell me about separating and divorcing with a young baby"
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[quote=Anonymous]It is hard to know if he is abusive or if it is frustration and impatience and you two have a really unhealthy dynamic. Withholding / refusing sex for a year in a marriage is a sign that you are just as frustrated but express it a little differently. Both of you are trying to get power and control where you can. Just a guess but he might also feel you are never or rarely nice to him either. It will be hard but unless you are going to go to counseling and work through it and develop better communication and a healthier way of relating - divorce is really your only option as you can't both live like this in a resentful, sexless marriage. [/quote]
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