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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am getting divorced for the 2nd time after being married for less than 2 years. I feel like a complete failure, he cheated on me a couple of months ago and I wanted to stay to work it out, go through therapy but in the process found out he kept lying to me , over and over, was still in communication with the OW when he said they were not, was still lying to me about the details of hte affair, the length of it, the depth of it. I just suddenly got tired of the lies and I am ready to walk away, but i feel so broken. I still love my husband, he is also my friend. I feel like I wont be able to move on, who will I call when I get off work? on my way to work? who will keep me company  or reassure me when things are bad. I know the right choice is to divorce because I deserve better, but I am so scared of the pain and heartbreak and trying to rebuild a life by myself all over again, the loneliness, the hurt. I dont know what i am looking for, maybe advice or validation that the right choice is to walk away from someone who cheated and keeps lying to you even if they are also very loving in other ways. Please give me the strength to walk away and tell me its going to be okay. I am crying as I am typing this as my heart is breaking[/quote]

I am so sorry you have to go through this. Please walk away from the marriage, you deserve better. [/quote]

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