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[quote=Anonymous]I told my husband I wanted a divorce months before I moved out. We wanted to get the kids used to it, at tax time we split our return (he stayed at home with our youngest, so we only had one income and qualified for a return at that time), and I used my part to pay for the lawyer, because the divorce was so simple that we didn't need to pay more than $500. The day we decided to separate until one year later was considered our separation period, and then the divorce was finalized. We went together to the lawyer's office to read over the divorce and make any changes, if needed. We did not go through the courts for child support. He and I have always been best friends, we just didn't work well married (no fighting or anything, just more like two roommates who had sex). We're still best friends, and my husband now is also one of his best friends. Our kids have benefited from the way we did this, because they have never had to hear fighting, no custody battle, no animosity, nothing. [/quote]
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