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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The therapist is wrong. You should not have to numb yourself so you can live like this. There is something seriously wrong, and the problem goes very deep. If you haven't had sex in that long, you kept initiating and being rejected, the problem lies with him. You need to switch therapists. [/quote] Neither OP nor the therapist can force OP’s husband to hold her hand. So if OP wants to stay in a marriage where her hand isn’t getting held, and her emotions about it are affecting her life, then yes, she may need to numb those emotions. The alternative is leaving him, or seeking hand holding elsewhere, with or without his permission. Substitute “sex” for “hand holding”. If a husband couldn’t control his anger because his wife won’t have sex with him for four minutes, what are his options? Medicate, leave, or have needs met elsewhere.[/quote]
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