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[quote=Anonymous]Omg...WHAT. None of this is even remotely normal. And it's, frankly, both weird and concerning that your focus is on whether the friends can ever 'accept' you, and not on whether you/you guys can ever work through the fact that even leading up to and after you guys were MARRIED he has been putting you down to them, and attending these secret camping trips specifically designed to exclude you, and continued to badmout you and let you be put down repeatedly in front of him, without sticking up for you.

Honestly, coming from a place of love: you need to get some self pride. Him treating you this way is NOT okay. At best (we're talking very, absolute best case scenario) he is immature and a huge (HUGE) coward. But the fact that he has gone along with this for all this time and not told them to cut it out or stuck up for you is pretty horrifying - it does not say good thing do about his level of respect for you. Screw the friends, the question is can your marriage ever come back from this...and I think the answer to that is only if he takes DRASTIC ans deliberate steps, and sticks to them

He sounds wildly immature (seriously, how old are these friends? And how often is he seeing them?) and you sound like you need to step it up and stick up for yourself - stop letting him jerk yourself around with his lame excuses [/quote]

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