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[quote=Anonymous]I don't even know where to start...

DH isn't scared because of how you feel.  He's scared because he got caught and now he has to unF this situation.  Had he actually cared about you, he would have fixed this in the past 4 years.

These were not boys' trips.  They were couples' trips you were excluded from.  With a DH that made no move to clear it up.  His story telling about you got SO bad he has two friends who won't hang out with them until he divorces you.  Do you not get how messed up that is what your husband must have been saying to them?!?

You claim you just recently found out about what he was saying, but didn't you ever wonder why you never hung out with his friends?

Your husband is not sweet.  He is a master manipulator and liar who has likely been living two separate lives.  Don't be surprised if he's cheated on you, because his friends likely supported it.

This is not a his friends problem. This is a your husband is an asshole and you likely lack the self esteem to fight him on it problem.  The fact that you care about writing a letter to his friends and NOT the fact that he's trash talked you and treated you like garbage for 4 years is exactly why he's been able to do what he's done. [/quote]

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