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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let her know the marriage is Open, lest she have any doubt that your sex life no longer involves her. [/quote] You sound like a dumb*ss every time you suggest this, and I'm as against one spouse unilaterally cutting off sex as could be. Sex is an issue worth divorcing over, and in some cases an open marriage can be explored instead, but STOP acting like a person can just "declare" the marriage open just like that and it's problem solved. You sound extrenely out of touch with how relationships actually work.[/quote] His wife "declared" the marriage would be sexless without first negotiating his prior consent, right? She has thereby established the fact sex NOT is an issue worth discussing over. Obviously sex is NOT an issue worth divorcing over for her (otherwise she would have divorced him instead of continuing in a normal/sexual marriage), she must want to stay married irrespective of their sex life. There can't be 2 different sets of rules regarding sex in a marriage. My advise to him is simply to follow her own rules, ie declare the marriage Open.[/quote]
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