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[quote=Anonymous]My gut has on and off raised suspicions of SO cheating for a few months.  Never anything tangible.  Then today had this weird text exchange with SO. It really seemed like I got sent a text by accident, and when SO said was sent for friend and SO had sent me something else it just still didn’t add up (even giving SO big benefit of the doubt).

Am currently trying to decide if I’m the kind of person who wants to know if SO having an affair.  I am fairly certain if I find out it will cripple our marriage. But am also fairly certain that if keep having these nagging feelings and don’t ever find out it will also cripple our marriage.

I detest the idea of going “looking” for evidence. Generally SO and I both have rational b/w point of view and in conversations.  We’ve had tough talks before(not on infidelity).  Should I just ask?  And if SO says no & I accept that, what is the aftermath of asking?   And if I am wrong, what the F is wrong with me/our marriage that I think SO is cheating?  (Btw I am aware that I need to be honest about whether I’d believe SO  before asking.)[/quote]

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