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[quote=Anonymous]20 years have passed. You have changed. He may have changed. You owe him nothing. But you owe yourself the chance to avoid a lifetime of heartache and "woulda, coulda, shoulda". So, you should contact him, agree to meet him somewhere neutral for coffee, make no commitments to yourself or him about how long you'll stay. Go, talk to him. Figure out if the person he is today is a person you want to get to know again or whether he's close enough to the father you remember to feel closure not seeing him or talking to him again. Do whatever you need to get closure yourself. If that's one and done; then so be it. If it's seeing him a couple of times until his illness gets extreme; that's what you do. If you find that you want to reconnect and spend the last few months of his life having the father that you never had, great. But only you can decide; and you need more information about him to decide. Good luck.[/quote]
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