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[quote=Anonymous]Long story short - I haven't seen my biological father since I was about 8 years old. He was an addict/alcoholic and basically disappeared. I'm an only child, my mother remarried and we all lived happily ever after. Fast forward 20 years to 2010: I'm engaged, happy, and just living life and receive a Facebook message from him simply saying, "I'm sure you don't want to talk to me but I'm your father and I hope you do". I deleted it and blocked him and made sure my privacy settings were all set very high. A few months later I was curious about him so I looked him up and he's somehow managed to find one of my wedding photos and posted it on his page where people are commenting about his "daughter" and how he "must be so proud" and I honestly don't know if it pisses me off or makes me sad. Fast forward to today: I'm happily married with 2 kids and I can't help but think about him sometimes and every once in awhile I check his page (I sign out and look him up via Google) and now see he has prostate cancer. Am I going to regret not reaching out to him when I click on his page one day and see he's dead? I'm really confused by these emotions! [/quote]
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