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[quote=Anonymous]I would be hesitant to make decisions based on how,you during what you acknowledge are depressive episodes. That you feel if life during those moments when you fantasize about being single doesn’t mean your marriage is the problem. You could divorce, change your life, and then have the same depressive episodes where the thoughts of yet another life give you momentary relief.

And on that note, I would try to come up with a realistic vision of what your post-divorce life would look like. You wouldn’t have your wife’s love and support during the good periods. You’d only see your young children half as often as you do now, and when you do see them, you’d have sole responsibility for them with no relief like your wife can currently give you. This will still be the case when you are in a depressive episode and it’s even harder to be “on”for the kids. You may end up paying child support, which would curtail your financial life. You wouldn’t be able to pick up and move to another country without foregoing seeing your children on anything other than an occasional basis.

Does all of that sound preferable to your current situation? [/quote]

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