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[quote=Anonymous]About 14 years ago I went on a date with a girl through Match.com.  We chatted online for some time before meeting.  Her photos were cute, but I never really noticed they didn't show her body.  On our first date I almost didn't recognize her.  She wa about 5'2" (not a problem, as I tend to prefer shorter girls), but she was on the heavy side.

I didn't say anything and we had a nice first date, but I tel you what...I wasn't happy she hide that she was overweight.  I was in good shape back then (ran everyday, workout, etc.). After the second date I told her I just didn't have time to date.  Sure, looks are not everything.  But, the reality is looks matter.  Especially at first!  If you really like this guy, don't make him rethink who you are because you lied about being overweight or whatever.  Looks to men matter.  That's reality.  You're only 5-10lb bigger?  That's not too hard to burn off depending on your age.  If you just job 30 minutes a day (even at a slow pace) and skip carbs and sugar you will lose 2-3 pounds a week easy.  [/quote]

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