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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are your kids? It may be easier to accept the lack of intimacy if it's for a limited period of time. If you decide that you will divorce when the youngest turns 18, then you can slog through as roommates knowing there's a light at the end of the tunnel. In the meantime, invest more in yourself. Do what you would do if you were single and living with a roommate. Focus on your career, take up a new hobby, strengthen the bonds of your female friendships. Save money like crazy and get yourself into great shape so you're ready to date the minute you separate.[/quote] OP here. This is what I am pondering exactly. It is 7 years away, and then I can leave with finanical stability and get on with it. But I'm not sure if that is too long. He finds the roommate situation to be normal for a marriage, so we can't jointly decide to divorce at that time, it would be me keeping it to myself. [/quote]
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