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[quote=Anonymous]Here's the scenario. DH mad because we fight too much. All our fights probably stem with me- him prioritizing his friends, no affection, sex about 10 times in the past 5 years. In our 40s, 2 kids. If I can [b]truly[/b] accept that we are roommates and co-parents only, I think I can release all the pent up anger and resentment I feel. Is it worth it to keep the family in place, and accept that I may never have intimacy in my life again? We got married in our 30s so maybe I should accept that part of my life is over? We are in therapy, and this is the only conclusion I have been able to draw. Unfortunately, he has very little sex drive so I don't see that being on the table again. Maybe on my birthday or something if I beg. I just hate the idea of ripping my family apart because I'm so needy. And it won't be easy to accept, but I think I can do it. I guess my question is, should I? Affairs outside of the marriage are out of the question. [/quote]
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