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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You sound like you would like your DH to be more proactive because you still need a second income. That is reasonable. Your DH sounds like he may be depressed and is at that midlife crisis age. Hang in there! When we have had similar situations, [b]my husband becomes more proactive if I encourage him and give him words of affirmation, rather than giving him advice, which he views as nagging him.[/b][b] Our small group is studying Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages, of which words of affirmation is one. Have you ever read it? It might be worth getting because of your situation. I have learned it is best when my DH and I are trying to work as a team and trying to love each other well. Hope this helps![/quote] Agree. Also, don't share how well you're doing at your job. It will only make him more depressed. Tell him that you'll support him in his efforts. Perhaps you should go with him to some networking events?[/quote]
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