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Reply to "Do I try to reconnect with an old friend"
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[quote=Anonymous]The real question is why you still want to be friends. She told you she was ready to move on, then she moved on, and here we are, 6 years later, and you still can't let it go. What's up with that? Look, it would be great if everyone we feel close to stayed a close friend forever. But, they don't. That's life. People change and move on. Someone once told me that there are three kinds of friends: reason, season, and lifetime. Most of our friends are friends for a reason (e.g., work friends that you never see again once you get a new job) or season friends (e.g., college buddies or mom friends who lose touch once that life stage passes). Lifetime friends, the people who really will be with you from cradle to grave, are extremely rare. Most people have only one or two in this last category - if they have any at all. It sounds to me like this person was a "season" friend that you are trying to turn into a lifetime friend. She's just not. Let it go. [/quote]
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