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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think we'd need to know what kind of work she does before we could say either way if it's normal.[/quote]

Sorry, can't discuss that and it isn't germane anyway.

Cell coverage is reliable, however she does rely on Wifi for texting. She's 10 hours ahead right now so it's very convenient if she were inclined. She should be back in her room, alone, by, say, 9pm, right? That's 11am here (DC).

It's that she has the ability and chooses not to that bothers me I guess.

I have asked her and her response is along the lines of "Wifi was spotty, or down."  "I was exhausted after long day." "Sorry, I forgot"

It's always excuses.

The paranoid me thinks she's sitting there with a guy and isn't going to text her husband in front of him.[/quote]

PP with the attorney husband here, my husband is rarely back in his hotel room for the night by 9 pm when he's traveling. Typically he's either out at a client dinner or working (because they try to cram as much work as possible into each day to minimize the length of the trip) until 10 or 11 each night.

How is your relationship when she's home? If she's making excuse or "forgetting," it's not necessarily that she's having an affair, but if things aren't great between you guys it could be that these trips are a kind of break for her from marriage stresses and she's avoiding talking to you because she doesn't want to deal with complaints, resentment, etc.[/quote]

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