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[quote=Anonymous]Is there a list on here because I am not seeing a lot of success stories?

My wife had an affair and we went to see  Dr. Sarah Hedlund and I regret every minute of it. I thought that the point was to stop the affair and improve the marriage, but I was in for a huge surprise. We were pretty much there to make my wife feel better about herself. At no point did she even suggest to stop contact. In fact, during the first session she said this: "It's perfectly normal to feel like you want to see him again and you probably will." After that, the Dr. was surprised to learn that my wife continued contact after three months of therapy.

If you are an expert on affairs then knowing how to read a cheater would be a necessary skill. This is only second to ending affairs. That was clearly not the focus.

If you have a cheating spouse don't waste your time with a therapist unless you know who you are dealing with. I get the feeling that folks usually attend because they have to and the therapist is just there to make an easy buck. Sometimes it's even required before a divorce, so it's just a way for a spouse that cheated to torment their partners.

Seriously, don't fall for it. 
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