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Reply to "After saving marriage, how do you deal with other family members who bad-mouthed you"
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[quote=Anonymous]Congratulations on the progress you've made! You are obviously vested in your marriage and that's a wonderful, wonderful thing. Ignore those who tell you to move on! Nothing worth having comes easy and it will not be easy to cope with those sweeping comments of your IL's. I encourage you to take the high road and simply ignore anything derogatory they have said about you -- pull them up to your level rather than sink down. Sometimes people just go with the flow of the situation and vocalize (often loudly) based on the tone of the major players. Previously you and your husband were struggling. NOW you are making progress. Hod your chin up, square your shoulders and let any unkindess roll off you. Return it with kind words and I think you will be surprised at how their tone eventually changes to match yours. Your marriage is worth this effort. I wish you and your husband many blessings in the coming years![/quote]
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