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[quote=grace4ever]I’m sorry for you are experiencing this situation. Even in the toughest parts of your marriage, there’s always hope. Counseling can be helpful to work through things like this. You and your husband are valuable and worth fighting for. Please let me tell you that there’s hope that maybe your husband can open up in your marriage. . I encourage you to be open to the forgiveness. I know that it can sound very difficult to hear but forgiveness has a great impact in our lives. Forgiveness does not mean that he is doing right, does mean that you appreciate more the relationship that you have with him. Forgiveness is like building bridges in the relationship but no walls of resentments. Have you ever thought about it? Also I encourage you to discern if you and your husband can improve the relationship and see if both can solve the problems and motivate each other to forgive and start again. Get help from an objective party who is a position to help you that is a good choice. Have you ever heard about the book: His needs and her needs by William Harley Jr.? It is an interesting book of a psychologist based on his experiences of counseling married couples. He discovered that the problem is not in the communication but in learning how to love your spouse. This book was a great tool for me when the things didn’t go well in the relationship with my husband however it helped us very much. . :) I hope this can help. I do not know if you whether believe in God but I will keep you in my prayers my friend. Keep us posted, Ok?[/quote]
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