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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A little unusual, but a few months ago I went to a trial outside the city (i work at a law firm and I am a male associate) with my boss (the partner). [u]The trial would last a week. [/u]The first couple of days it was all professional, but it was after a breakthrough in the case that we went out with local counsel. We had a few drinks and[u] me and the partner took a cab[/u] back to our hotel room. She started fondling me. I think she is attractive for her age and I really respect her (brilliant mind, but kind). Anyway, one thing led to another, and we spent basically the rest of the trip sleeping with each other.

She is not my direct partner in charge, but one of three i work with a lot. I am 31 and she is 45 (i think). [u]She is married while I had been dating someone[/u] for the past 3 months. 
Anyway, since coming back, it's been a bit strange. [u]She's came over a few  times.[/u] We've gone on local trips with each other (cabin in blue ridge) 
she constantly texts, and [u]its[/u] pretty naughty stuff. But she basically gets jealous when i go out on dates etc and wants me to stop. 
I would say she is in an unhappy marriage. She thinks her husband has cheated (also biglaw partner) in the past and [u]perhaps may still be[/u]. He also treats her like crap (which[u] i have witnesses[/u] just from the emails she's shown me. He talks to her like he would an associate. I think she loves the fact that i think she is smart and attractive and compliment her constantly.

But no the problem is that i am not sure how to end it with her. I don't want to be her toy and i don't want [u]restrictions of[/u] my dating life. 
I am going to be up for partner soon, and she has a considerable say in the process. I don't want to burn any bridges but i don't want to be locked in this love triangle.

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Can't see you making partner either way -- you are a terrible writer and make hilariously poor decisions at work.

Based on the trouble you had matching verb tenses in this post, I can't imagine [/quote]

I mean, really, "me and the partner took a cab" violates grammar rules that my 8 year knows.[/quote]

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