Reply to DH changed his email password

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "DH changed his email password"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]DH and I are in marital counseling.  Things are not good.

He's had the same email password for years, and he knows I sign into his email regularly so that I can take care of things for the home.  I pay all the bills, for example, manage everything for the kids, etc.  He does none of this.  NONE.  I could not emphasize this enough.

Today I tried to sign into his email because he needed to electronically sign the re-enrollment contract for our daughter's school, and I didn't have his username for his account (there's an account for each parent, both parents have to sign), so I had it sent to his email (I did have the password, because I was the one who set up the account; I just somehow lost the username).

Anyway, gmail said he changed the password 2 weeks ago, when we had a big fight and he went to spend the night at a friend's house.

Is this a totally reasonable thing for him to do?  Or is it a little suspicious, in the context of our relationship?

I feel like telling him, it's fine if you don't want me to go in your email, but you could have just TOLD ME not to go in your email.  And frankly then you could start doing all these little tasks (bill paying, keeping tabs on important stuff that comes in about the kids, etc) yourself, which honestly, I would be thrilled about.

To be clear, he signs into my email, too, and I know that he has signed into my email in the last 2 weeks - he needed to look something up and he mentioned he signed into my email to find it.

[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics